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Unique Christmas gifts for parents who have everything
Short answer: give them plans for the new year, not more things. The best Christmas gifts for parents are the ones they're still using in March.
By December the list is always the same. They have the mugs, the robe and the slippers. What a lot of parents don't have is a reason to get out of the house on a gray Tuesday in February, when the decorations are down and the calendar is empty. So here are gifts that fill the new year instead of the cupboard.
10 unique Christmas gifts they'll still be using in March
- A membership for the whole year. A botanical garden, a museum, the zoo or an aquarium. Tuck the card in a box with a date written on it for the first visit.
- Tickets for January. The month after Christmas is the quietest of the year. A matinee, a ballgame or a concert gives them something to look forward to.
- A class that starts in the new year. Pottery, cooking, painting, woodworking or a language. Rec centers and community colleges post their winter classes in December.
- An annual state park pass. Where their state sells one, it's an easy yes: trails, lakes and picnic tables all year.
- A standing date with you. Breakfast on the first Saturday of every month. Write all twelve dates on a card.
- A day trip, already planned. A small town an hour away, an orchard, a lake. Pick the day, plan lunch, and do the driving.
- A grandkid day. One afternoon a month with a grandchild: the library, ice cream, a walk. Put it in writing so it happens.
- A photo book of this year, with room for next year. Then make next year one worth filling.
- An outing for the two of you. A cooking class together, a tour of the town they've lived in for 30 years, a show. The gift is the day.
- Brightwend. Full disclosure: ours. Each morning it suggests one outing close to home, at a real place that's open that day, picked for what they enjoy. The welcome kit arrives ready to wrap, and at the end of the year their good days come home in a printed book.
How to wrap a gift that isn't a thing
- Give them something to open. A card in a small box, a ticket in an envelope, or a clue to the first outing.
- Put the first date on it. A gift with a date gets used. A gift without one gets saved for later.
- Make it about them. Pick the class, the place or the team they already talk about.
A gift year of Brightwend is $139 through December 31 (then $179). One payment, no auto-renew, a welcome kit in the mail, and a hardcover book of their year at the end. Order by December 15 and the kit arrives before Christmas, ready to wrap.
Quick answers
What's a unique Christmas gift for parents who have everything?
Plans for the new year instead of things: a membership, January tickets, a class, a standing date, or a year of outings like Brightwend.
What do you get parents for Christmas when they say they don't want anything?
Something to do rather than something to keep. Most parents who say "nothing" mean "no more stuff."
What's a good Christmas gift for parents who live far away?
Pick something near them they can use without you, like a membership or Brightwend, then call and ask how it went.
When should I order a Brightwend gift for Christmas?
Order by December 15 so the welcome kit arrives before Christmas. The gift code is emailed to you right away.
More gift guides
- Unique gifts for Mom (that aren't more stuff)
- Unique gifts for Grandma and Grandpa
- Gifts for parents who say they don't need anything
- Gifts for grandparents who don't want more stuff
- What to get Dad when he says he needs nothing
- Experience gifts for parents (that aren't a big trip)
One more thing: nobody from Brightwend will ever call, text or email asking for money, gift cards, gift codes or bank details. If you give Brightwend, let them know we'll never call asking for the code.